Revamping...

In the midst of doing a bit of a revamp of my show... and boy, is it difficult!! It's so tough trying to decide which items stay and which ones go! It's like cutting off a limb!

Sex Toy Lady "Envy"

Okay... so I've heard the comments before. How people are "jealous" of the sex toy lady. People seem to think I have the kinkiest sex around.

But, I can honestly say that there are times when it's not what you think. Yes, I have a niiiice collection of personal toys that can make me very happy, but there are times when it's not what you'd think it is. I guess I get frustrated when I have someone special in my life who isn't into the toys like I am. I know. Weird, huh? The sex toy lady is with someone who's not into toys??!?!? Tell me about it.

It's not like I'd want to whip something out all of the time during our "playtime", but I'd like a more open-minded lover when it comes to bringing something else into the bed. It's not very encouraging when I even mention a game and get scoffed at. Ugh.

I can't help that I get excited when I get new products in. I want to talk about them because they do get me excited and curious. Getting a reaction like a totally unexcited "Yay" is not encouraging at all.

What gets me is that I'm the one who's willing to play "dress up" sometimes, but I'm not getting anything else in return. Relationships are a 2-way street, right?

What to do... what to do...

Top 5 Hostesses of 2009...

... so far.

1. Alicia S. (State College) $1,293 in Sales w/10 ordering guests. She received $179 in FREE SPENDING, PLUS an additional $129 in FREE SPENDING giving her a total of $308 in FREE SPENDING because she booked on one of my RED HOT DATES!!!!

2. Andrea K. (D.C.) $1,150 in Sales w/8 ordering guests. She received $165 in FREE SPENDING!!

3. Dina H. (Spring Mills, PA) $1,096 in Sales w/14 ordering guests. She received $159 in FREE SPENDING!

4. Anne S. (State College) $1,009 in Sales w/10 ordering guests. She received $150 in FREE SPENDING!! Plus, she had an addition $85 in free because her friends donated money to her bridal "wishing well"!

5. Christen D. (State College) $1,007 in Sales with 6 ordering guests. She received $150 in FREE SPENDING, PLUS an additional $201 in FREE SPENDING giving her a total of $350 in FREE SPENDING because she booked on one of my RED HOT DATES!!


AWESOME PARTIES, LADIES!!!

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Ben Wa Ball advice

All I can say is, if you're using Ben Wa balls to help strengthen your PC muscles, I highly recommend that you take them out well before you think you may have to pee. It takes a heck of a lot of coordination to pee and not "lose" a ball in the toilet. :-/

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Holy G-Spot, Batman!

I recently returned from our annual "For Your Pleasure" Convention. Learned lots... came back with a fire under my ass to get my business running at high speed. And... came back with NEW products!! Ohhhhhh yeahhhhhhh!

One of the toys I came back with is the njoy Fun Wand. Yep, we added the njoy line of stainless steel. They are gorgeous pieces. So smooth, polished, strong. I liked the one piece so much I had to get one for MYSELF to try. And boy, oh boy...

Meet... the njoy "Fun Wand". I knew from looking at it that it would be a great g-spotting toy (both solo and while receiving oral from a lover)... the other end being great for a little anal play.

So today was the day that I was going to do a little "research". Hello, Fun Wand!

Holy g-spot! The head found my g-spot with ease... I tried a little bit of rocking... then the side-to-side "wiper" movement (which is one of my favorites). HOLY COW!

And to top it off, I did a little squirting with the help from a buzzing item on my "hot button". Yaaaay!

One of my faves....

The "LILY".

May I just tell you that I absolutely ADORE this little toy?? It's AMAAAAZING!

I first met LILY at last year's Convention in Vegas. I went to the LELO table, played with the GiGi and Tuyo... then spotted LILY. LILY's quite petite in size (smaller than your basic flip-phone). I picked her up and held her in my hand... she felt so silky-smooth... my fingers wanted to just keep touching her.

Then I push the power button.... WOW!!! She has so many different types of vibration! She can go thru the basic low, medium, and high. But she can also pulsate... low-high/low-high, escalate... oh my! I was sooo impressed by her power. And... she's really, really quiet. Key for some of the folks who may have children in the home or roommates. ;-)

The curve in LILY is great for partner play as well because she will fit nicely between two people.

She's a splash-proof silicone toy. She's also RECHARGEABLE!! Yaaay! No more wasting batteries! A 2-hour charge can give someone 6 HOURS of pleasure. You could even stash her discreetly in your purse for a naughty night out!

LILY also comes with her own elegant box that you can store her in if you like.

If you'd like to know more about LILY, feel free to check her out on my website HERE.

Top Hostesses of 2009...

... so far.

1. Andrea K. (D.C.) $1,150 in Sales w/8 ordering guests. She received $165 in FREE SPENDING!!

2. Anne S. (State College) $1,009 in Sales w/10 ordering guests. She received $150 in FREE SPENDING!! Plus, she had an addition $85 in free because her friends donated money to her bridal "wishing well"!

3. Christen D. (State College) $1,007 in Sales with 6 ordering guests. She received $150 in FREE SPENDING, PLUS an additional $201 in FREE SPENDING giving her a total of $350 in FREE SPENDING because she booked on one of my RED HOT DATES!!

4. Aimee L. (State College) $874 in Sales with 11 ordering guests. She received $122 in FREE SPENDING!!

5. Brittany V. (State College) $803 in Sales w/12 ordering guests. She received $115 in FREE SPENDING!!

AWESOME PARTIES, LADIES!!!

Think you can top that?

Top Hostesses of 2009...

... so far.

1. Andrea K. (D.C.) $1,150 in Sales w/8 ordering guests. She received $165 in FREE SPENDING!!

2. Anne S. (State College) $1,009 in Sales w/10 ordering guests. She received $150 in FREE SPENDING!! Plus, she had an addition $85 in free because her friends donated money to her bridal "wishing well"!

3. Aimee L. (State College) $874 in Sales with 11 ordering guests. She received $122 in FREE SPENDING!!

4. Brittany V. (State College) $803 in Sales w/12 ordering guests. She received $115 in FREE SPENDING!!

5. Ashley C. (State College) $785 in Sales w/13 ordering guests. She received $113 in FREE SPENDING!!

6. Stephanie K. (Bellefonte) $773 in Sales w/8 ordering guests. She received $112 in FREE SPENDING!!

AWESOME PARTIES, LADIES!!!

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New car! Working on it...

Sooo... a drunk driver with a .282 BAC came along and did this to my poor car last month. Yeah... not fun. But, I wasn't in it at the time, thank goodness! I was actually fast asleep in bed... minding my own business. I guess you could say that my car was totaled. Argh. Check out my poor car magnet...

Unfortunately, in PA, the car insurance company cannot give more than what the car is worth. Argh, argh. Would've been nice to get enough money to get a new car. I'm not asking for a brand new car. Just enough to get another car without having to take out a loan. This car was paid for in cash so I had no payments.

Anyway... working on getting more parties and business so I can pay off the loan I had to get as soon as possible. Thank goodness with my "job", it's possible to pay it off pretty damn fast!

I'm going to keep moving forward and focus on my work. I've turned my May Parties into my "Pay Off My Car Loan" month! Tee hee!

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TAX TIME!

Man, oh man... it's TAX TIME! Have you filed your taxes already or did you wait until the last minute like some of us, hmmm?

Yep, I waited until the last minute this year. I was good last year... not so much this year. Argh... I think I was afraid that I'd have lots to pay since I'm self-employed. Ouch. And yes, we filed for an extension... since I didn't meet with my accountant for the first time until Monday, the 13th.

Well, if you are filing your taxes on the deadline, hope it's in a city where they practically turn the Post Office into party central!

My Top Hostesses of 2009...

... so far.

1. Andrea K. (D.C.) $1,150 in Sales w/ 8 ordering Guests.
2. Brittany V. (State College, PA) $803 in Sales w/12 ordering Guests.
3. Nicole F. (State College, PA) $759 in Sales w/7 ordering Guests.
4. Hannah & Kelli (State College, PA) $751 in Sales w/13 ordering Guests.

Hostesses also qualified for BOTH Monthly Specials.

AWESOME PARTIES, LADIES!!

When will you be on this list?

Oh my! The things we women do!

I hope our other halves can appreciate what we do.

The scary thing is, I do this to myself... ouch!


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Valentine's Day... How was it?

How was your Valentine's Day this year, hmmm?

I do see that there can be so much pressure to make it such a perfect holiday -- some of us want flowers, some of us candy, some of romantic getaways, some of jewelry. But do those expectations always get met? Maybe not all of the time. And we're left disappointed. :-(

Of course I would love that huge romantic gesture, but really, I'd be fine with something that is truly heartfelt. No matter how small it may seem to be to someone else. As long as I know that it came from the heart.

Did you spend it with that special someone in your life? Did you spend it with your nearest and dearest friends? Did you show them how much you love and appreciate them? Did you show yourself some love?

And yes, I did spend my Valentine's Day with someone special and my friends.