*sigh*

So what do you do when you lose your "research partner"? Hmmmm...

Find a new one!!! Tee hee!!

Huhhh...

So it's been a while since I posted... there's been some madness going on in the love life department that's had me disctracted, but I've slowly been coming back to the social world. Reconnecting with old friends... making new ones....

It's sad how after over 2 1/2 years of sharing a life with someone that, when it ends, it's like you never existed in each others' lives. Very sad.

I will continue to sling my dildos! It may be a bit before I find a great and steady "research" partner, but in the meanwhile... ;-)

My Top Hostesses of 2008...

... so far.

These ladies also qualified to receive a Monthly Hostess Special and a Hostess Exclusive item.

1. Angela M. (Lancaster, PA) $1,099 in Sales. $159.99 in Free Spending.

2. Hayley C. (State College, PA) $1,009 in Sales and 1 Booking. $150 in Free Spending, 1 item @ 70% off, and 1 item @ 65% off. Qualified for BOTH Hostess Monthly Specials and 2 Hostess Exclusive items.

3. Jackie B. (Milesburg, PA) $800 in Sales. $115 in Free Spending and 1 item @ 65% off!

4. Lisa B. (State College, PA) $766 in Sales. $111 in Free Spending and 1 item @ 65% off.

5. Bri & Jenna (State College, PA) $721 in Sales. $97 in Free Spending

6. Marina B. (State College, PA) $665 in Sales. $91 in Free Spending and 1 item @ 65% off.

7. Katherine M. (State College, PA) $657.20 in Sales and 2 Bookings. $125.75 in Free Spending, 2 items @ 65% off.

8. Erin E. & Teddi S. (State College, PA) $633.00 in Sales and 3 Bookings. $173.30 in Free Spending and 2 items @ 65% off.

Awesome job, ladies!

"Purrrrr"

My "Purr" finally arrived last week! And just in time as I'm going thru relationship woes so I don't have a "playmate"...

My darling UPS man made his delivery and boy oh boy... I could barely contain myself! Opened up the box to find the familiar clear, plastic box holding my "Purr"... YAAAY! Mine! All mine! "Hello, Purr... you're alllll miiiine..."

But of course, I had to put the Purr down and go do a Party... my "research" would have to wait...

The Zodiac screwed me!

I was hanging out with some friends this past weekend... got my hands on one of their books... something like the DarkSide of the Zodiac... kinda tells you all the bad stuff about your sign...

I am an Aries. And boy, oh boy, am I screwed!

Of course, me being me, I wanted to know what it had to say about my sexual prowess... of course! What did it have to tell me?

1) That I like to be harder, faster, louder, better than all of my lovers' lovers.... hmmm.. okay. I can sort of see that.
2) That I don't like foreplay and just want to get down to it. HUH?!?!?!? Okay, I admit, yes, there are times (okay, many times) when I want to just get down to it. But I am a woman after all, and I do like the foreplay. I can't fully enjoy myself without getting warmed up first. I'm not like a guy with his erection ready to stick it in something. That's right, if I'm not warmed up enough, the orgasm won't be making its appearance and I'm going to be slightly cranky for being denied it. All that hard work and I don't rewarded with an orgasm? You'd be pretty damn cranky and slightly resentful too if they were getting theirs all the time and you were left hangin'! I admit, part of that may be my fault when I spoil a lover and let him have his way straightaway and then he neglects the whole foreplay thing... gotta get off that crap. I like to spoil my lovers, but I deserve to be spoiled too. Dammit!
3) That I like the pursuit of a lover and once I get him, I'm on to the next. Not really... Besides, I like to be the one that's chased... on the rare freakin' occasion that I'm actually chased.
4) That I have a problem with authority. Yeah, I do. That's why I work for myself.
5) That I have a bad temper. I can. Sometimes.
6) That we Aries invented road rage. Okay, when I first got my car, I had no problems with the idiots on the road, but now... yes, I can be found swearing and talking to the morons I come across (and want to drive over) on the road. Just a tad road rage-y. O:-)
7) That I like to be the boss and everyone has to do things my way. Yeah. Again, that's why I work for myself. Working on the whole "they have to do it the way I say" thing...

It also told me, like all of the Cosmos and other astrological signs books, that Leos are a great match for me. Hmmm.. they've been big pains in my butt when I look at past experiences... all have broken my heart. What's the other compatible sign for me?

So anyway, I'm screwed according to this book. Great.

And yet, still waiting...

Mr. Postman... bring me a dream!

Please bring me my "Purr" so I can scream (with pleasure)! ;-)

Purr...

Still waiting for my "Purr" to arrive... :-(

New Products

I put in an order the other day for some new products to show and one just for me! Tee hee!

I'm especially excited about one of the product lines we added to our collection -- Tantus Silicone. Oooohhh....

Let me introduce you to the "Purr".... I bought one in Vegas for my kit and have wanted it just for myself ever since! So I ordered another one! Yay! I can't wait to get it!

Tantus is an awesome company. The toys are all handmade in the good ol' USA. They're the only company in the world that uses the highest grade of silicone available. It makes their toys phthalate-free, odorless, boilable, bleachable, heated up to 600 degrees.... And also hypoallergenic for those ladies who find that they are very sensitive to other materials like jelly.

I can't wait to try out my "Purr"... those ribs and that curve really have my mind going!

I'll fill you in once I've given it a little "test run"...

Oh, Mr. UPS Man, please bring me my dream!!!

The "Wedge"

So I received my Liberator "Wedge" the other week... ;-)

We were able to give it a whirl just once 'cos we've been out of town for Vegas and haven't been able to spend much time together alone to try it out some more... let's just say that I'm super-curious and excited to try it out...

The Wedge even came with a little positions book to help get us started if we aren't certain about how to use it. I definitely like the feel of it... it's not going to squish down like a bunch of pillows normally would, ya know? It seems like it'll definitely provide the support.

I just hope it doesn't turn into a regular bed pillow... I would like the "Wedge" to be something we use quite often.

Hmmm... maybe the "Ramp" or "Wedge/Ramp" combo will be next? I am still eyeing up the "Zeppellin" though... ;-)

Growing team...

"Team Frisky Business" is growing!

We just welcomed Christie and Andrea this month. I am so excited and glad that I finally decided to build a team. I guess after three years it was about time, huh? We'll be taking over the Centre County area soon... look out! I'm looking nationwide too!

I do admit that I am a bit nervous about having people under me... right now, I have five members on the team. I guess I'm nervous that I won't make a great leader. I am glad that Chris M. has been there to help guide me a bit more and shown me what a great leader can be like.

It's been a while...

Wow, it's been a long while since I last posted! I got caught up in the holiday and then just other things... oy...

So we got back from the "For Your Pleasure" Convention in Vegas late Monday night... boy oh boy, did I learn a TON of stuff! I've been trying to let it soak in... and I'm excited to get my business rolling into a higher gear!

Who did I get to see? We Nicki Keohohou as a speaker for two days... "Top Dog" Eileen Proctor... Lynn Rose... and my favorite, Michael Losier who wrote "The Law of Attraction". He was awesome! I wasn't sure if I would be able to handle 3 hours for the second half of the second day, but he was so great! When I first found out he was speaking, I was so excited that I was going to Convention. And FYP was nice enough to buy everyone there a copy of his book (I had my own there already) so they could read up on it.

Matt and I were able to check out Cirque De Soleil's "Zumanity" on Friday night. LOVED IT! Wow! There was so much going on, I thought I was going to go into sensory overload! The things the performers were able to do with their bodies! They get you in the mood for sensuality from the moment you walk thru the doors with the deep reds and the plush walls that you just have to touch... the "peepholes"... I am so glad that we went!

Sorry, my brain is still processing things and I still getting back on east coast time... and I have a Party to get ready for. Hope these ladies are ready to check out the new catalog!!

Las Vegas, here we come!

We got our plane tickets! Can't wait!

Hopefully, we'll get to check out so much more than last year! Maybe the Playboy Club... a burlesque show or two... foot-long hot dog at Slots-A-Fun... YAAAAAAY!

Convention's going to be great! I can't help being a nerd and being excited about the learning too! :-p

Still trying to find plane tickets....

My honey and I are still on a mission to find our plane tickets to Vegas for Convention.
SHEESH!!!
I get a headache just thinking about it. And this year, it's his job to find them.
We're only leaving for Vegas in about 3 WEEKS!!! That'll teach me to wait until the last minute again...

Goal for the rest of the year starting in August:
Set aside a bit of money from each and every Party and save it for next year's Convention and travel, where ever it may be.

My Top Hostesses of 2008...

... so far.

These ladies also qualified to receive a Monthly Hostess Special and a Hostess Exclusive item.

1. Angela M. (Lancaster, PA) $1,099 in Sales. $159.99 in Free Spending.

2. Hayley C. (State College, PA) $1,009 in Sales. $150 in Free Spending, 1 item @ 70% off. Qualified for BOTH Hostess Monthly Specials and 2 Hostess Exclusive items.

3. Jackie B. (Milesburg, PA) $800 in Sales. $115 in Free Spending and 1 item @ 65% off!

4. Lisa B. (State College, PA) $766 in Sales. $111 in Free Spending and 1 item @ 65% off.

5. Marina B. (State College, PA) $665 in Sales. $91 in Free Spending and 1 item @ 65% off.

6. Katherine M. (State College, PA) $657.20 in Sales and 2 Bookings. $125.75 in Free Spending, 2 items @ 65% off.

7. Erin E. & Teddi S. (State College, PA) $633.00 in Sales and 3 Bookings. $173.30 in Free Spending and 2 items @ 65% off.

AWESOME JOB, LADIES!!

VEGAS Hotel is BOOKED!

Finally booked the hotel for the "For Your Pleasure" Convention in Vegas... The Tuscany. Nice hotel... just a block off the strip... spacious rooms too. Just have to walk to the main building for the convention stuff and hopefully this year our room won't be at the other end of the property. Last summer, I felt like I was walking to class from East Halls at Penn State and it was soooo hot!

Onto the plane tickets, which I think we'll need a miracle for... Prices have gone up so much compared to last year.... Ugh.

That's it... I'm going to start saving and planning for next year's Convention earlier!

Bring a toy into the bedroom? HECK YEAH!

Sure, sex toys are great! The "Rabbit" can keep a lonely lady company any time... but I think that sometimes people forget that they toys aren't just for the "singles". They can be brought into the bedroom for partner sex. Don't be shy about it.

Guys, don't fear it. Embrace the toy!

The majority of women still need to have clitoral stimulation during intercourse in order to have an orgasm and sometimes the fingers just get plain tired! I encourage you to bring at least a little bullet into the bed with you! A silver bullet is small enough so it's easy to tuck in places and not get in the way during intercourse... and it can pretty powerful!

Maybe start with a toy and then work up to something with a few more bells and whistles.

Let's not forget about the goodness of the vibrating cock ring... ooooh yeahhh! This fun little gizmo goes right around the cock at the base of the shaft to keep the man harder, longer... that's right... so both partners can enjoy each other a bit longer. We have c-rings that don't vibrate, but I'm a huge fan of the vibrating ones! They seem to turn the penis into a little vibrator... the vibrating attachment hits the woman's clitoris during penetration, which helps bring her to orgasm. And guys, we didn't forget you. There are c-rings with a little extra bullet just for you for that little vibration around the scrotum.


This c-ring is called the "Vibrating Ball Banger Cock Ring". It has a lot of my male customers fascinated. Not only does it have the one-touch vibrating stimulator for the lady, it also has those little, weighted balls that will stimulate both partners during thrusting... giving "the boys" some much-needed attention and stimulation.

Sending "Thanks" to Troops

I received two more e-mails from soldiers serving in Afghanistan over the last two days. It's really nice that they took the time to send me a note to let me know they received the care packages and give me a little info on where they're stationed and what they are doing there.

I think over the past month I've send out at least 10 care packages. I think the folks at the post office dread seeing me walk in the door with a pile of those flat-rate boxes! Thank goodness the postal service is offering flat-rate boxes just for military so we get a little bit off the regular rate. And boy do I loooove the flat-rate box! It doesn't matter how much it weighs and it's the same price! I've sent tons of books that I got from the AAUW Used Book Sale here... TONS of shampoos/conditioners, deodorants, and other everyday items. I'm in Giant nearly every day with my coupons buying deodorant, toothpaste, shampoo, conditioner... They must think I'm some crazy deodorant-collecting woman with a bunch of coupons! "I swear! I'm sending them overseas! I'm not a loon!"

I got the idea to send packages over in "Bust Magazine"... they had a little blurb in there about women in the military... how they may be soldiers, but they are still women who might like to feel or smell a little girly on occasion. They also listed the website, "AnySoldier.com". So, it started out as girly items (girly-smelling products, mags).... I haven't used any other website sicne.

It's hard for just me to do it, not to mention quite pricey, so I put a call out to my party guests... oh yeah, I'm not ashamed! I put it in their e-vites... Donate an item to send overseas and get 10% off the lowest-priced item on their order... bring two, get 10% off the 2 lowest-priced items, and so forth... Most of the time, I don't get donations, but there have been parties when everyone has brought at least one item... I've even seen my hostesses give items to their guests to bring back! I love it when my guests think to bring something to donate. Sure, I lose a bit of my commission, but it's for a good cause. These men and women are overseas serving our country.. they've given up time with their families... I don't think I'll miss a little bit of cash.

I really do just appreciate getting letters/e-mails from the troops when they receive their packages. I wonder how my "Junk Food" box went over. I did a search for troops from PA and the one set asked for "Middleswarth" potato chips... Middleswarth is a PA thing, so I sent them a big bag of chips, some Snyder's Pretzels (another PA thing), Tastycakes... and some other yummy things... I hope it all arrived all right.

But yeah, I get really excited when I see an e-mail or letter from a soldier. I think about them often... appreciate all that they do... hope for their safe return home...

Sending

Moving forward

Being in this kind of business we deal with the ups and downs of sales.... it's something that can be so unpredictable -- one month can be amazing and the next one can just plain SUCK!
I'm trying to follow Dori's, from "Finding Nemo", advice... "Just keep swimming... just keep swimming..."
I feel like I'm stuck in a little rut... but, I'm going to keep working... keep pushing and moving forward. I can't just sit and let things around me pass me by.
If I don't have a Party, I'm going to do stuff that will help my business. Though of course, like Thursday night, I may just take a break from most biz stuff... you need to reward yourself and you need to take a bi of a breather from the work. I admit that I an one of those people who feel so lost and naked when I'm without my computer!
I've been working my butt of to earn my FREE TRIP to Hawaii on "For Your Pleasure's" dime! Okay, it is really more like "partying my butt off"....
But then, how do you stay motivated and on task when things aren't going the way you hoped they would?

Economic Stimulus Check = Stimulate YOURSELF!

Got some of that Economic Stimulus Money burning a whole in your pocket? How about stimulating yourself with goodies from “For Your Pleasure”? ;-)

It's certainly not often that the government sends you "Free money" to spend as you please. Pay off a few bills, make a charitable donation, and then don't forget about yourself!

"For Your Pleasure" has all the goodies you need to make you smile from ear to ear. And men, of course we have items for you! We wouldn't leave you out...

After all, May is "National Masturbation Month"!

Visit my website HERE and peruse the online catalog. I'm sure we'll have something you'll like!

Mom's Coming to the Party!

On occasion I will do a Party where the hostess's mother is in attendance or a guest attends with her mom. I think it's awesome! Now, for some ladies it might weird them out when they hear their own mothers talk about the sex they are or aren't having. These ladies kind of do the "I'm going to hold my hands over my ears and go 'la la laaaa' so I don't hear you" thing. But ya know what, mothers are sexual human beings as well!

Sure, they're our moms... they raised us... they supported us.. they are our biggest fans. But how do you think you became into being, huh? That's right! They had some sex!

I guess some of the younger ladies that attend might be uncomfortable with the idea that their moms might actually realize that they're having sex in some form or another, but it's such a fun environment, that they seem to get over it pretty quickly. :-p

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I really appreciate when a mom and daughter team are at the parties together. To me, it means that mom and daughter are respectful enough of each other and realize that both are adults with needs, that attending a sex toy party together is a bonding experience.

Besides, we do private ordering so no one knows what anyone is getting unless that orderer chooses to reveal it.

And, I'm sure we've got lots to learn from our moms...

Now if only I could get my mother to accept the fact that this is my "job" job...

Final Episode for "Talk Sex" Airs This Sunday

It's the End for 'Talk Sex' TV Show

By DAVID BAUDER,

AP

Posted: 2008-05-08 13:06:45

NEW YORK (May 7) -- Sunday night is getting less steamy.

Oxygen's 'Talk Sex' call-in show with colorful septugenarian educator Sue Johanson is ending its run after six seasons, the network announced Tuesday.

Oxygen / AP

Sue Johanson has hosted 'Talk Sex' on Oxygen for six years. Her last show is to air at midnight Sunday. "I'm going to miss writing scripts," she said. "I'm going to miss having to read books. I'm going to miss playing with sex toys."

The final show airs at midnight Sunday.

"I'm going to miss it terribly," Johanson told The Associated Press. "It's been part of my life and I just love it. I'm going to miss writing scripts. I'm going to miss having to read books. I'm going to miss playing with sex toys."

Her final show will count down the year's top 10 sex toys.

Her show, derived from a Canadian radio program that began in 1984, offered practical advice and the latest information on sexually transmitted diseases. It was all the more colorful hearing it from a Toronto-based nurse who looked and sounded like your grandmother.

Now 77, Johanson said she had to recognize that 1 a.m. (when her shows ended) was not her finest hour. Since it's a call-in show, taping the show earlier didn't make sense.

"I have been on television for 32 years," she said. "I think it's time. I figured if we haven't got it by now, we're not going to get it. We've got to make room for somebody else."

She said she enjoyed working with Oxygen and wasn't pushed out. The only editing Oxygen ever did was to urge her not to use a particular slang for penis.

"Talk Sex" is Oxygen's most-popular late-night show, and its ratings among young viewers this season were the best ever, the network said.

Material from the show will continue to be available on Oxygen's Web site and on demand.

Johanson said she isn't retiring and will continue to give lectures. "I'm a ham," she said. "I love a large audience."

Copyright 2008 The Associated Press. The information contained in the AP news report may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or otherwise distributed without the prior written authority of The Associated Press. All active hyperlinks have been inserted by AOL.

2008-05-08 12:16:09

Allergies...

Oh boy, is it allergy season! Gees.... I have been all sneezy... itchy eyes... itchy throat... stuff AND runny nose (how does that happen???)...

Makes it a bit of a challenge to do my shows... *A-CHOO!!!!!*

And I'm sure it's kind of funny-looking to see me laying out on a blanket in the grass with a big box of tissues next to me too! :-p

Sex Swing

I highly recommend that the first time you try out a sex swing with your partner that you both be sober...

Visit my site: www.PamelasPassionShop.com... visit our online store... do a search for the sex swing... we have our Fantasy Swing... Spinnning Sex Swing... and of course we have a stand if you don't want to hang it from your ceiling... ;-)

Who wears short shorts?

Do you wear short shorts? :-p

Spring is in the air and with that warm weather comes shorts and skirt season! (Yes guys, we know you love it!)

And with those shorts and skirts smooth legs go along with it, right?

Want super-smooth and soft skin that seems to last for days? Want a bump-free, rash-free shave?

Then Coochy Shave Cream is the way to go! Oh, you read it correctly. Coochy.


Ladies (and gents) this stuff is AMAZING! Once you use it, you'll wonder how you went all this time without it!

You only need to use a little bit. Just a thin layer, let is sit for about 30 seconds and shave away! Skin will be baby soft... no bumps, no razor burn, no rashes.

It's a hair softener, letting it soak in for a bit will be very helpful.

Guys, you can use it to shave your face... leaves your skin so touchably-soft. If you shave your chest, use it.

If you shave your head, use it!

Ladies, if you don't get the full Brazilian, apply some Coochy to the hair "down there", let it set for about 30 seconds, rinse away, and your hair will be left softer. You can even use it as a regular hair conditioner.

A great partner to go with the Coochy is our Coochy After Shave Protection Mist!


This contains natural botanical extracts and is used to provide a great protective barrier between freshly-shaven skin and clothing.

Leaves the skin even softer! And ladies, you can turn the bottle upside down to get those hard-to-reach places 'cos it has a 360 degree sprayer on the bottle!

And yep, guys you can use this after you shave your face! One of my hosts told me that he was just using Coochy to shave and his face felt great, but then he would use the After Shave as well and he feels his hair grows in slower and finer!

Ladies, I have a guest who told me that she would get really bad razor burn behind her thighs, so when she used the Coochy Shave Cream, it wasn't so bad. Then she bought the After Shave Mist at another Party and she no longer gets razor burn!

I've has many hostesses tell me that their legs stay smooth for much longer than shaving with regular shave cream!

One of the reps says that she "feels naked all day" when she sprays the Coochy After Shave Mist onto where ever she shaved... :-p

Sooo, if you where short shorts, then Coochy is what you need! Give it a try, you'll love it...

Host a Party so you and your all of your girlfriends can order your own bottles!

Can't wait to host a Party? You can order online thru my website:
www.PamelasPassionShop.com

-- Pamela

May is "National Masturbation Month"!

I was just forwarded this little tidbit of information...

"May means Cinco de Mayo, Memorial Day, yes, Mother's Day ... and masturbation?

That's rightomorrow kicks off National Masturbation Month, as deemed by the people at Good Vibrations in 1995. And while we're not one to pass up sex, going solo does have health and sexual benefits.

A 2003 Australian study found that men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer. Sexual intercourse doesn't provide the same benefit, researchers say, because it puts you at risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection.

And we all know pleasuring ourselves makes us better able to pleasure her. It helps you relearn the process of sexual response, which means you last longer in bed.

Couples can learn from watching each other masturbate, says Brian Zamboni, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Minneapolis. "If watch her, you can learn a ton about what makes her feel good," he says.

It's not a bad thing if your girlfriend or wife masturbates. In fact, women who service themselves are more likely to orgasm during intercourse and oral sex.

Zamboni suggests manually stimulating each other: "It's a fun, different way of being sexual with each other. It's also very intimate, and you both learn more about what the other likes."

So go ahead, watch some porn and get happy this month. But make sure the door is closed first, and never pass up real sex for a one-handed job." -- Source uncertain yet... still trying to find where the blurb came from.

Soooo.... go ahead and show yourself some love!

Liberator.com

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April is THE time to Join the Team!

If you've ever thought about becoming a consultant with "For Your Pleasure", NOW is the time to do it!

For the month of APRIL ONLY, when you join my team, you could get a FREE Kit! That's right, FREE! Qualify within 30 days and you owe nothing else for that kit!

We are also offering our mid-sized and largest kits at a 75% Discount if you would like.

We've never seen a special like this before and you definitely don't want to miss out!

Isn't it time you take a chance on yourself?

If, for some reason, you find that the party business isn't your thing, once you qualify, you can walk away. Take the at least $400 you've made and the $650 worth of product (from the smallest kit) and walk away. Plus, you'd have lots of fun stuff to play with.

And if you find really do like it, you'll be "partying for a paycheck"! Earning at least 40% commission... meeting new people... working when you want to... using that extra cash for whatever your heart desires...

Come give "For Your Pleasure" a try and you'll see what the "Buzzzz" is all about...

TIME IS RUNNING OUT!

Busy weekend...

I had a very busy weekend! From this past Wednesday thru Sunday, I had 7 parties scheduled! Though, I ended up doing only 4 parties this weekend because the one cancelled at the last minute. Grrrr...

My sales weren't as high as I'm use to, but it happens. That's sales for ya.

I did get to do a little female bonding with one of my hostesses and her friends this weekend. Sometimes it's nice to have some time to get to know my hostesses and guests as more than just hostesses and guests.

So I had my day off today -- which was spent doing work, having meetings, and doing some recruit training. And I still have a huuuuge pile of laundry that's just waiting to swallow me up whole!

Time management. Definitely need to work on that.

Kind suggestion

As an at-home sales consultant, our parties are our business. When we don't do a party, we don't make money, and that kind of hinders the whole eating, paying rent thing.

Please, don't cancel on us. When someone books a Party with me, she can almost be guaranteed that I will be there unless there is some awful emergency (sick beyond belief, death in family, accident) and even then, I will try to get another rep to do it for her.

If a hostess must reschedule, I ask that she do it as soon as possible so that I have enough time to find someone else to fill the original spot and get her booked for a date that works better for her. No huge deal.

I can be an understanding person when there are circumstances beyond a hostess's control -- family issues, etc.

Please don't cancel on me just because the weather is nice and you want to go out drinking with your friends. You've made an appointment with me, please keep that appointment. When the party is over, go out and party your face off. Enjoy the rest of the day! I'd be right there as well if I didn't have another party to go to straight after.

Just understand that when someone cancels on me at the last possible moment, that puts a damper on my income and this is my full-time job. And when that party is on a day that is wanted by many, those who wanted that date as well miss out, ya know?

I just ask that my hostesses keep the date they booked with me. It'll be a great time and your friends will thank you for it. And, your body just might thank you for it as well. ;-)

That's my gripe for the day. Sorry.

Rapex

Introducing the "Rapex"... the anti-rape condom...

To be worn as a precautionary measure for woman (inserted like a tampon and can be worn for up to 24hours)... This was invented by a woman in South Africa, where the rape rate is the highest in the world with a reported 50,000 cases a year (and that's just reported! doesn't count the child rapes either!)...

When a man inserts his penis into the vagina, the little barbs on the inside of the latex device attach themselves to the penis, and the only way that thing is coming off is if the guy goes to the hospital to get it removed surgically... and when he does, they'll know he's a rapist... The Rapex also acts as a female condom protecting the woman from STD's.

Some people think it's a barbaric device, but I totally agree with the inventor when she says "it's a medieval weapon for a medieval man".... It's a barbaric device for a barbaric act/man...

It's about damn time!!

What do you think?

*****
9/4/2011: I've learned that the product name has since changed to "Rape-aXe".

"Squash & Go"

"Squash & Go" has to be one of my new favorite games to play! I just started playing it the other week and it's been a hit, especially for the folks who've been to two or more of my parties!

Think of it as kind of like "Never Have I Ever...".

Friends and guests learn so much about each other... sometimes more than they expected! And it's all in good fun!

Taking over the town...

I'm hoping that FYP will have a great niche in the lesbian and gay circuit here! How exciting would that be, hmmm?

WE Tv's "Secret Lives of Women"

I've recently discovered WE Network's "Secret Lives of Women" on my OnDemand.

I just finished watching an episode about fetishes and I'm watching one about polygamy/plural marriages right now...

All I can say is that it's been an educating experience, especially this episode about polygamy. Some of it's kind of scary. They're showing the different sects of this kind of lifestyle. Did you know that 35,000 people in the U.S. practice polygamy?

I mean, I don't want to be one to judge. When it comes to people's lifestyles, as long as you're happy and not hurting anyone, all the more power to you. But, I'm hearing a story about a girl who grew up in this kind of family, she grew up and her stepfather ended up marrying her. What?!?! And this man who got sexually aroused by some talk about God?!?!

There was also a different kind of plural family lifestyle shown.. the more "normal" style I guess... these ladies seemed a bit more together. Not as scary as the other group.

But yes, there is a stereotype of this kind of lifestyle and I do feel bad for some of these families who feel they have to hide their lifestyle/beliefs because they'll be persecuted by the "normal" folks.

I do appreciate these women for coming out and telling their side of the story.

Anyway, enough of that...

Onto the fetishes... again, whatever floats your boat. If it turns you on and you have someone who will do it for you, then fantastic! There's a fetish for just about everything in this world. Not everyone is turned on by what society calls the "norm".

I enjoy finding out about what's out there and what people are turned on by. I might not all be a turn on for me, but hey, it's a turn on for them. As long as you're not hurting anyone (well, unless you're spanking and flogging), go for it!

Shoes...

Ahhhh... a sexy pair of heels.

Shoes can be so much fun...

Don't you agree?

How "experimental" are you?

Hmmm... so do you think people are more likely to be more sexually experimental when they're younger (in their 20's to early 30's) or as they get older?

For me, I think it depends....

When I was younger and single, there were more opportunities. But as I got a little older and the long-term relationships came along, being more adventurous within the relationships was "safer"... there's a trust involved and you know that person won't hurt you. Where, as a single going out and casually hooking up and getting into certain situations, you can't be too sure of what might come of that event. Could be good, could be bad.

I'm trying to compare my single days to my relationship days. I'll elaborate more...

Party! Party! Party!

Off to another Party!

Please send me "sell lots of vibes" vibes! :-)

I never would've thought that going to a Party would keep me out of trouble and put some money in my pocket!

"No thanks, my vibrator works fine!"

Okay, so it's not always true...

Especially to those men who are like, "It's going to replace me! My cock doesn't do all of that!"

Sure, your cock doesn't spin around or have beads in it or vibrates. But, our vibrators don't talk to us, cuddle with us, etc.

I enjoy my toys, but I still adore my man! And yep, sometimes I put the two of them together! ;-) A toy enhances our "playtime" when we want something a little different. For me, a nice little c-ring can turn him into a human vibrator too!

Plus, a toy helps to put us on a level playing ground with each other when it comes to arousal.

That's right, men... I think you might be aware that our male counterparts become fully aroused at a much faster rate than we do... ummm, it takes us about 20 minutes to get our juices going. That's why we love.... FOREPLAY!!!

Bringing a toy into partner sex can help a lot. Why not help your partner pick out a toy? 'Cos if you're really concerned about the size of the toy that you use for "playtime", perhaps you could help her choose something a little on the smaller side.

And as for replacing you... a toy won't. It's just that sometimes you're not always there when we want a little satisfaction. And yes, sometimes a good, quick orgasm is all we need right before bed.

Don't fear the toys, guys! Embrace them! A happy lady will make you happy in return and round and round we go! Gotta love that cycle...

Peruse my online catalog and take a look at our huuuge collection of products!

New additions...

Hmmm... what to add to my demo kit. That can be a tough call. I have one item that I've decided to bring back since it was a good seller (the "Muffin Mucker" if anybody's curious. What else, what else...

And speaking of new additions... I have a new member on my team! I'm so excited! I believe she's going to rock the parties and make herself some good money! She loves the sex education side of it. And, I may have another recruit in the Poughkeepsie area. My team is expanding and I love it!

So adding to my kit and adding to my team... soon adding more to my wallet! Things are going to be good...

A little break...

I've had a little "vacation" this week 'cos the students are on Spring Break and I couldn't get any locals to book for this week... Oh well..

So I'm just killing time waiting for next week to arrive so I can kick off the rest of my parties for the month.

But, I guess it wasn't a total waste of time. I did get some work done and I have a nice "to do" list for tomorrow so I can get most of what needs to be done taken care of before my man comes into town for the weekend.

I don't like having to do work while my honey's here 'cos I feel like I'm neglecting him. Definitely don't want to be putting work before him! Gees, I got into this business to work when I want to work and to have time for the important people in my life, right?

"I'm Going to a Sex Party"

One thing that I seem to hear the most from the the ladies who attend my parties seems to be the men's misconceptions of what we actually do.

I do hear it called a "sex party" instead of "sex toy party". So if you heard "sex party" too you just might think that we really are having a crazy orgy with toys! It's just like the stereotypical fantasy that when women get together for a sleepover, we're hanging around in our nighties, having pillow fights, touching each other in naughty places.

I am not demo-ing the toys for everyone... I am not showing the ladies how the toys work... and I'm definitely not passing the toys around for each guest to try out and pass on!

I'm presenting the toys and other products to the ladies... I'm explaining how they work.... and they get passed around so everyone can get a better look.

Come on, guys... Women are frisky and all, but really?

But I have to admit, I do love the men's curiousity! There's nothing wrong with a healthy curiosity if you ask me.

It's tax time!

Man, oh man... I love working for myself. But I haaaaate doing taxes! I always keep my receipts sorted out though not so organized as to sort them into categories each month, but they're sorted. I was surrounded by receipts, a notepad, and my calculator for about 3 1/2 hours today!

Let's hope that all this hard work pays off and the folks at Jackson Hewitt can get me lots and lots of money!!

What will I do with that money? Hmmmm....

I'm here!

Okay, I'm here. Let's see how this goes...

In this blog I'll tell you about some of the stuff I go thru in my life as a "romance enhancement party rep" (sex toy party lady!). From the good times to the funny times to the crappy times (there can actually be some of those) back to some amazing times... and maybe to some of the "research" I do in my personal time...