Saturday, March 29, 2008

WE Tv's "Secret Lives of Women"

I've recently discovered WE Network's "Secret Lives of Women" on my OnDemand.

I just finished watching an episode about fetishes and I'm watching one about polygamy/plural marriages right now...

All I can say is that it's been an educating experience, especially this episode about polygamy. Some of it's kind of scary. They're showing the different sects of this kind of lifestyle. Did you know that 35,000 people in the U.S. practice polygamy?

I mean, I don't want to be one to judge. When it comes to people's lifestyles, as long as you're happy and not hurting anyone, all the more power to you. But, I'm hearing a story about a girl who grew up in this kind of family, she grew up and her stepfather ended up marrying her. What?!?! And this man who got sexually aroused by some talk about God?!?!

There was also a different kind of plural family lifestyle shown.. the more "normal" style I guess... these ladies seemed a bit more together. Not as scary as the other group.

But yes, there is a stereotype of this kind of lifestyle and I do feel bad for some of these families who feel they have to hide their lifestyle/beliefs because they'll be persecuted by the "normal" folks.

I do appreciate these women for coming out and telling their side of the story.

Anyway, enough of that...

Onto the fetishes... again, whatever floats your boat. If it turns you on and you have someone who will do it for you, then fantastic! There's a fetish for just about everything in this world. Not everyone is turned on by what society calls the "norm".

I enjoy finding out about what's out there and what people are turned on by. I might not all be a turn on for me, but hey, it's a turn on for them. As long as you're not hurting anyone (well, unless you're spanking and flogging), go for it!

Friday, March 28, 2008

Shoes...


Ahhhh... a sexy pair of heels.

Shoes can be so much fun...

Don't you agree?

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

How "experimental" are you?

Hmmm... so do you think people are more likely to be more sexually experimental when they're younger (in their 20's to early 30's) or as they get older?

For me, I think it depends....

When I was younger and single, there were more opportunities. But as I got a little older and the long-term relationships came along, being more adventurous within the relationships was "safer"... there's a trust involved and you know that person won't hurt you. Where, as a single going out and casually hooking up and getting into certain situations, you can't be too sure of what might come of that event. Could be good, could be bad.

I'm trying to compare my single days to my relationship days. I'll elaborate more...

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Party! Party! Party!

Off to another Party!

Please send me "sell lots of vibes" vibes! :-)

I never would've thought that going to a Party would keep me out of trouble and put some money in my pocket!

Monday, March 17, 2008

"No thanks, my vibrator works fine!"


Okay, so it's not always true...

Especially to those men who are like, "It's going to replace me! My cock doesn't do all of that!"

Sure, your cock doesn't spin around or have beads in it or vibrates. But, our vibrators don't talk to us, cuddle with us, etc.

I enjoy my toys, but I still adore my man! And yep, sometimes I put the two of them together! ;-) A toy enhances our "playtime" when we want something a little different. For me, a nice little c-ring can turn him into a human vibrator too!

Plus, a toy helps to put us on a level playing ground with each other when it comes to arousal.

That's right, men... I think you might be aware that our male counterparts become fully aroused at a much faster rate than we do... ummm, it takes us about 20 minutes to get our juices going. That's why we love.... FOREPLAY!!!

Bringing a toy into partner sex can help a lot. Why not help your partner pick out a toy? 'Cos if you're really concerned about the size of the toy that you use for "playtime", perhaps you could help her choose something a little on the smaller side.

And as for replacing you... a toy won't. It's just that sometimes you're not always there when we want a little satisfaction. And yes, sometimes a good, quick orgasm is all we need right before bed.

Don't fear the toys, guys! Embrace them! A happy lady will make you happy in return and round and round we go! Gotta love that cycle...

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Friday, March 14, 2008

New additions...

Hmmm... what to add to my demo kit. That can be a tough call. I have one item that I've decided to bring back since it was a good seller (the "Muffin Mucker" if anybody's curious. What else, what else...

And speaking of new additions... I have a new member on my team! I'm so excited! I believe she's going to rock the parties and make herself some good money! She loves the sex education side of it. And, I may have another recruit in the Poughkeepsie area. My team is expanding and I love it!

So adding to my kit and adding to my team... soon adding more to my wallet! Things are going to be good...

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

A little break...

I've had a little "vacation" this week 'cos the students are on Spring Break and I couldn't get any locals to book for this week... Oh well..

So I'm just killing time waiting for next week to arrive so I can kick off the rest of my parties for the month.

But, I guess it wasn't a total waste of time. I did get some work done and I have a nice "to do" list for tomorrow so I can get most of what needs to be done taken care of before my man comes into town for the weekend.

I don't like having to do work while my honey's here 'cos I feel like I'm neglecting him. Definitely don't want to be putting work before him! Gees, I got into this business to work when I want to work and to have time for the important people in my life, right?

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

"I'm Going to a Sex Party"

One thing that I seem to hear the most from the the ladies who attend my parties seems to be the men's misconceptions of what we actually do.

I do hear it called a "sex party" instead of "sex toy party". So if you heard "sex party" too you just might think that we really are having a crazy orgy with toys! It's just like the stereotypical fantasy that when women get together for a sleepover, we're hanging around in our nighties, having pillow fights, touching each other in naughty places.

I am not demo-ing the toys for everyone... I am not showing the ladies how the toys work... and I'm definitely not passing the toys around for each guest to try out and pass on!

I'm presenting the toys and other products to the ladies... I'm explaining how they work.... and they get passed around so everyone can get a better look.

Come on, guys... Women are frisky and all, but really?

But I have to admit, I do love the men's curiousity! There's nothing wrong with a healthy curiosity if you ask me.

It's tax time!

Man, oh man... I love working for myself. But I haaaaate doing taxes! I always keep my receipts sorted out though not so organized as to sort them into categories each month, but they're sorted. I was surrounded by receipts, a notepad, and my calculator for about 3 1/2 hours today!

Let's hope that all this hard work pays off and the folks at Jackson Hewitt can get me lots and lots of money!!

What will I do with that money? Hmmmm....

Monday, March 10, 2008

I'm here!

Okay, I'm here. Let's see how this goes...

In this blog I'll tell you about some of the stuff I go thru in my life as a "romance enhancement party rep" (sex toy party lady!). From the good times to the funny times to the crappy times (there can actually be some of those) back to some amazing times... and maybe to some of the "research" I do in my personal time...