Can I have my cake...

... and eat it, too?

I want a man who wants to be with because of me (who I am) -- not because of what I do for a living.

And I don't want a man to NOT want to be with me because of what I do.

Ugh.

I try to stay out in the public eye for work and then I still want my privacy. I don't really like the idea of someone Googling me and knowing the work side of my life until I tell them, if they don't already know.

Ugh. Ugh.

I really do want my cake and eat it, too.